Sexual fantasy can play a large role in a relationship and individual sexuality. However, there’s often a fair amount of shame around sexuality and sexual fantasies. Listen to today’s show to learn how to explore your own fantasies and share them with your partner. You just might learn a few fun new things about each other and perhaps your fantasy will turn to reality!

Today’s show topics include:

  • How to work on feeling less shameful about your sexual fantasies
  • Communication tools to share your fantasies with your partner
  • The deeper meaning of your sexual fantasies (Threesomes might be a need to feel desired, ect..)
  • Learn if it’s ever a bad thing to fantasize too much
  • Examining your fantasies and peak sexual experiences
  • And much more!

Xanet Pailet is an intimacy educator, coach and author of Living An Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself And Awaken Your Pleasure. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills. Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatica Experiencing Trauma Practitioner. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Brides, Sex with Emily, SheKnows, and Elephant Journal.

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