This conversation is a comprehensive look at three very important elements of a healthy relationship. We haven’t talked much about commitment on this show and the first half of the conversation is dedicated to this critical topic. Listen to today’s show for some amazing, actionable advice to start applying to your relationship today!

In this episode with Matthew Hoffman, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Different kinds of commitment and how to show more commitment in your relationship
  • Fears around commitment and how to talk about them with your partner
  • The key ways to show appreciation and gratitude in your relationship
  • How to communicate with intentionality
  • Important questions to ask your partner that will help you connect with them
  • Understanding what is underlying conflict in your relationship
  • The importance of fighting fair and creating understanding during conflict
  • And much more!

Matthew P. Hoffman is a national speaker and author of the Kickass Husband: Winning at Life, Marrige & Sex. A fulfilled and successful husband who leads men and women from selfishness and unfulfillment to satisfaction and love in their marriages. He is also the founder of The Kickass Assessment, Co-Host of the Kickass Couples Podcast, and C.I.O (Chief Inspiration Officer) of Kickass Couples Nation where he and his entire team teach imperfect couples how to deepen and strengthen their #1 relationship. He is also a regular contributor as an expert on relationships on NBC’s ‘Bloom’- a syndicated health and wellness show.

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