Who doesn’t want to have better sex in their relationship!? The path to better sex doesn’t have to be confusing and difficult. You have the power to initiate the changes you want for better, hotter more intimate sex. Listen to today’s episode to learn the exact steps to make these changes.

  • Learn how to ask for what you want in bed and how to tolerate sometimes not getting it
  • Understand that it’s your job to share what’s on your mind, not your partner’s job to read your mind
  • How to practice communicating about your sexual desires to get what you want
  • The importance of saying no when you need to say no
  • And much more!

Jessa Zimmerman is a certified sex therapist and couples counselor in Seattle as well as the host of the Better Sex Podcast and author of the new book Sex without Stress. She focus’s on helping couples who have a good relationship but who struggle with sex.

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Episode Links

Jessa’s Website

Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman

State of Affairs by Esther Perel

Episode 139: Avoid These Common Sex Life Pitfalls


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