Communicating in and around the bedroom will help you have better, more connected sex and improve your relationship. Listen to today’s show to learn how to best communicate needs and wants around sex and ignite passion with your partner. Hang on, today’s episode may get hot and steamy!

In this episode with Dr. Tara, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Why many of us lack the skills and awareness to communicate around sexuality
  • Why most sex issues are actually communication issues
  • Important questions to ask your partner to help improve your sex life
  • Sex as an act of communication
  • How to communicate outside of the bedroom to create more action in the bedroom
  • The importance of complimenting your partner and how to do it
  • And much more!

Dr. Tara is a sexual communication expert. She’s a tenured professor of Relational and Sexual Communication at California State University Fullerton, an award-winning researcher, a sex and relationship coach at, and the host of Luvbites by Dr. Tara podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and exploration. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health Magazine, Insider, and other media outlets. She gave a TEDx Talk titled Become Sexually Powerful that highlights her 5,000-participant study examining predictors of sexual satisfaction, and her journey from an anxious immigrant from Thailand to a confident Sexpert. Her goal is to normalize sex talks and help people live a more passionate life and feel more sexually fulfilled through confidence and communication coaching.

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Episode Links

Dr. Tara’s Website: Luvbites

Dr. Tara’s Luvbites Podcast 

10 Minute Guided Sexual Meditation for Couples

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