When narcissism rears its ugly head, it can have extremely detrimental effects on your relationship. Listen to today’s show for an in depth look at how narcissism can negatively impact your relationship and how to navigate it.

In this episode with Darlene Lancer LMFT, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Is there such a thing as ‘healthy’ narcissism?
  • The 5 characteristics of narcissism
  • How to recognize abuse in your relationship
  • What to do if you feel like your partner has no empathy
  • How to gain your power back in a relationship
  • Determining if you should stay or go when in a relationship with a narcissist
  • Why we fall in love with narcissistic traits
  • And much more!

International relationship expert and media spokesperson on narcissism and codependency, Darlene Lancer is a psychotherapist and author of 10 books, including “Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist,” Conquering Shame and Codependency: 8 Steps to Freeing the True You” and “Codependency for Dummies.” She’s counseled individuals and couples for 30 years and coaches internationally. Her books and ebooks are available on Amazon, other online booksellers, and her website, www.whatiscodependency.com, where visitors can get a free copy of “14 Tips for Letting Go.” Find her on Soundcloud, Clyp, LinkedIn, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook.

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Episode Links

Darlene Lancer’s Website: What Is Codependency

Darlene Lacer’s Website

Dating, Loving, and Leaving a Narcissist: Essential Tools for Improving or Leaving Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships

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