Join us as Steve Horsmon breaks down why it’s important to hold onto your N.U.T.S (non-negotiable unalterable terms) both individually and within a relationship.

Steve is the founder of, a company with the mission to educate, mentor and transform smart guys into confident, skilled and authentic men of purpose and passion.

In today’s episode we discuss relationship topics that include:

  • How to determine your N.U.T.S.
  • How to cultivate self reliance for a healthy relationship.
  • Choosing your partner each morning to create more love.
  • How to avoid the cliche, “They are not the person I married.”
  • And much more!

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Steve Horsmon’s Daily Tool

Wake up and decide to choose and love your partner each day.

Relationship Advice Resource

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel

The Queens Code by Alison Armstrong

Hold Onto Your Nuts by Wayne Lavine

Love at First Fight by Bruce Muzic

Advice for Newlyweds

Clearly understand your personal values and the values expect to hold in a relationship.

Advice for Single Listeners Seeking a Happy Relationship

Hold yourself accountable for being the kind of person you would want to date.

Interview Links

Steve’s Website

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