There seems to be a preconceived inevitability of the sex dying out in long term relationships. Sometimes it’s a bang, sometimes it goes out with a fizzle. But it doesn’t have to be that way! Listen to today’s show to learn how to keep the spark alive in long term relationships.

In this episode with Irene Fehr, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Understand why sex often dies out in relationships
  • The three types of sex and why they’re important to comprehend
  • Why you want to work toward connected sex where sex flows easily
  • How to talk about sex in your relationship
  • Avoiding reading too much into the “no’s” in your sex life
  • And much more!

Irene Fehr, MA, CPCC as she helps couples bring sex and passion into sexless relationships and fall in love with each other again. Determined to dispel myths about sex in long-term monogamous relationships and women’s libido that cause so much heartache, Irene’s views have been featured all around the world in HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29 and ScaryMommy.

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