Relationship goals are not only a hashtag used on your friend Becky’s page every other day with her “amazing” boyfriend. Relationship goals are something that can be an important tool to help really improve your life. Listen to today’s show to learn how to make intimacy a priority in your relationship and set those very important relationship goals.

In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • How to get from knowing what you want to do in a relationship to actually doing it
  • Sharing your relationship goals with your partner
  • Why you should sometimes have sex before doing the dishes
  • Actionable tips to create more intimacy in your relationship
  • Understanding and communicating about your sexuality
  • And much more

Dr. Lyndsey Harper is an ob/gyn and the Founder and CEO of Rosy. She created Rosy out of frustration when she couldn’t find modern and accessible resources to help her many patients with common sexual health concerns and issues. Launched on Valentine’s Day in 2019, Rosy is a platform dedicated to empowering women on their journey to sexual wellness. Dr. Harper has started important conversations about sexual health, partnering with over 2,700 doctors and therapists on Rosy, and launching the first telehealth platform specifically for women’s sexual health.

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