We often think the experts have everything figured out in their relationships and marriages. The reality is they’re just like most people! They share the same struggles, argue about who cleans the dishes and get on each other’s nerves. Listen to today’s show to learn from Dr. Heather Barto’s experience in a sexless marriage.

In this episode with Dr. Heather Bartos, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • What to do when your partner wants to stop having sex
  • The importance of taking ownership for our roles in relationship issues
  • How to not be a victim in a sexless relationship
  • How to bring sex back into your relationship
  • Why the biggest sex organ is the brain
  • And much more!

A board-certified OB-GYN, author, speaker and mom, Dr. Heather Bartos is a leading voice in the field of women’s health, and particularly women’s sexual health. She is also a US Navy Veteran, former Associate Professor of Obstetrics & Gynecology and is currently medical director of her “village for women’s health,” Be. Women’s Health & Wellness outside Dallas, Texas. Featured in publications from Glamour and Huffington Post to Reader’s Digest, Women’s Health and ABC News, Dr. Bartos loves talking all things women and sex on her podcast, The ME Spot.

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