One of the benefits of being in a relationship is helping your partner become their best self. We can achieve this by empowering our partner through words of affirmation, validating their feelings and many other simple exercises. Listen to today’s show to learn how to help your partner become the best version of themselves!

In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • How creating a ‘best self’ nickname for your partner can give them a huge boost and benefit your relationship.
  • Validating your partner to help them heal childhood wounds.
  • The importance of assuming your partner wants to come through for you.
  • Creating an affirmation of your deepest desires that you can live into.
  • Acting as if you’re having an affair with your partner.
  • And much more!

Dr. Diana Kirschner was a frequent guest on The Today Show and starred in a PBS TV Special on love. She is the best-selling author of Love in 90 Days and 30 Days to Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide. Dr. Diana has helped thousands all over the world to find passionate lasting love. Her free Dating Tips & Relationship Advice newsletter is available at

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Do you want to hear more on this topic? Are you or your partner struggling boosting each other up? If so, you’re not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe


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Episode Links

Dr. Diana’s Website

30 Days To Love: The Ultimate Relationship Turnaround Guide

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