The choice to spend your life with another individual is a big one. It’s important to ask yourself certain questions to understand why you’re in a relationship with a particular individual. Whether you’re single, dating or married, today’s show will help guide you toward a better relationship future.

In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Why the alignment of values is critical to a successful relationship.
  • How to make a clear partner choice without ‘love chemicals’ getting in the way.
  • Understanding how your partner manages conflict as a key determinant of a successful relationship.
  • The myth of the ‘soulmate’.
  • How to engage in future oriented thinking for your relationship.
  • And much more!

Dr. Cassandra Bolar has a passion to see families flourish and thrive. For over 13 years, she has been engaged in community-based programming and research efforts that focus on improving outcomes for children and their families. Clinically, she is passionate about serving marital couples through therapy and relationship education, and has created the Marriage Head Start premarital curriculum.

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