The title of today’s episode is something we may feel or something we may have been told. Fortunately, there is a lot of hope if you find yourself on the giving or receiving side of this sentiment. Listen to today’s show to learn how to navigate the loss of love and passion in your relationship.

In this episode with Andrew Marshall, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

  • Learn what to do with the uncomfortable feelings around, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”
  • How to argue more constructively and why you should argue more
  • Addressing the issues you’re not talking about in your relationship
  • How to know when you need to see a therapist
  • How to use an amazing conversation tool called positive inquiry
  • The importance of reflecting back to your partner and how to do it best
  • And much more!

Andrew Marshall is a marital therapist with 35 years experience and author of twenty books translated into twenty different languages. His best known international selling book is ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you.’ He is the host of ‘The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall‘ where he talks to people from all walks of life about what makes their life meaningful. He lives in Berlin (Germany) where he has a practice and leads a team of UK based marital therapists.

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